Marriage vs. wedding
Yesterday evening I was contemplating our almost 7 month union and commented to my husband: "You know, the wedding was nice and everything, but, whew, in retrospect that wasn't the most fun ever." And he agreed that being married has been a lot of fun, whereas we were both a bundle of nerves up until the wedding.
I mean, it was great to have friends and family there, but there was so much trepidation and worry and nervousness, that I really didn't enjoy it as much as you imagine you are going to enjoy your wedding day. It was truly beautiful and we have the photos to prove it...but marriage has proven to be a lot more fulfilling!
I definitely don't look back on my wedding day and wish we could do it all over again...it seems almost like it was a trial to be survived.
Am I the only one who feels like this, or does anyone else look back and feel kind of relieved that it was over and they don't have to relive it?